HPCutie asked Apr 28, 2010...
How does F feel about me?
Past
The optimist. An independent youth, full of life and unafraid of failure. An exciting journey full of new experiences. A birth notice or news of a creative project commencing.
Present
A heavy load to bear. Responsibilities are weighing you down. You have taken on so much – perhaps it is time to share the burden before you cause yourself permanent injury.
Future
Heartbreak. Grief, loss and betrayal. Knowledge can bring great sadness – but would you have preferred to remain ignorant? Take heart, time will ease the pain and you will emerge wiser and stronger.
Comments
I guess not so good, eh? ;)
To be honest, I'm not sure how to interpret this. I had a brief, non-serious fling with this person, and although I really liked him, I ended it with him because I figured he was more serious about someone else (I knew he was seeing other women, but I didn't want to waste his time if he really liked another). I perceived the break as amicable, and I thought he was relieved that I ended it. However, I can't be certain, although I'd like to believe he has moved on with the other woman...
hello there, i feel as though, although you went into the fling with F lightheartedly and without expectations, greater feelings developed along the way. The burden you are feeling seems to be around you feeling you needed to make decisions around the relationship for the both of you, and ultimately this meant self-sacrifice - you handed him the opportunity to have a relationship with someone else while denying yourself the same thing. Sometimes being the 'bigger' person just means more weight to carry around! Ultimately this has left you a bit out on your own (especially if you have not had this self-sacrifice acknowledged or affirmed) and wondering if you'd focused on yourself a little more, if you couldn't have had something more. Perhaps the lesson here is to think of yourself and your needs in future and to try and put yourself first sometimes! Hope this helps x